At Arella on Jones, we understand the challenges families face when helping loved ones transition to senior living. Navigating this journey can feel overwhelming, but the right guidance makes all the difference.
The passage below, inspired by Nancy Wesson, highlights the importance of thoughtful preparation during this process. If you find her insights valuable, we encourage you to explore her book:
Moving Your Aging Parents: Fulfilling Their Needs and Yours Before, During, and After the Move
This resource offers practical advice and support to help you and your loved ones every step of the way.
A Blog Post Story Inspired by Nancy Daniel Wesson
A few years ago, I faced a challenge that many adult children will eventually encounter: helping aging parents navigate their later years. While age plays a role, factors like health, mental sharpness, and attitude significantly shape how we experience aging. My mother, mentally sharp well into her 80s, resisted being labeled as a “senior” despite her advancing years. It wasn’t until physical or cognitive decline became evident that we began exploring the next steps—a process that can often feel overwhelming.
My Story
When my mother turned 80 and began struggling with yard work and household chores, she admitted it might be time to consider moving to a supportive community. Despite my experience in organizing and counseling, I quickly realized I had much to learn about senior housing options. This inspired me to write the book:
Moving Your Aging Parents: Fulfilling Their Needs and Yours Before, During, and After the Move (Wesson).
For more information, visit: Amazon - Moving Your Aging Parents.
Knowing When to Move
Before deciding to relocate, consider whether in-home services or changes to the environment can extend your loved one's time at home. Many seniors prefer to remain in familiar surroundings, but relocation can sometimes be the better option.
Retirement & Independent Living
For active, healthy seniors who want independence but with added services. These communities offer:
Social activities, fitness classes, and outings.
Amenities like dining, pools, and fitness centers.
24/7 security.
Considerations: Ideal for those who can live independently but want conveniences like meal prep and housekeeping. No medical care is provided.
Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs)
These communities offer a full continuum of care, from independent living to skilled nursing, allowing residents to “age in place.”
Includes lifelong care contracts and on-site healthcare.
Recreational activities tailored to various health needs.
Considerations: Best for those who want to plan ahead and can afford the higher entrance fees and ongoing costs.
Assisted Living Facilities (ALFs)
These communities support seniors who need assistance with daily tasks like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Private or semi-private apartments with communal dining.
Social opportunities and some medical care.
Considerations: Suitable for those who need help with some daily activities but not constant medical supervision.
Personal Care Homes (Residential Care Homes)
Smaller, home-like settings offering personalized care in a more intimate environment.
Lower staff-to-resident ratio.
Specialized care for conditions like memory loss or mobility issues.
Considerations: Ideal for those who prefer a more personal, family-like environment, but be aware that smaller homes may lack resources for complex health needs.
Nursing Homes (Skilled Nursing Facilities)
Provide 24/7 medical care for those with chronic conditions or disabilities.
Skilled nursing and rehabilitation therapy.
Structured activities for physical, emotional, and social well-being.
Considerations: Best for seniors requiring round-the-clock medical care. Carefully evaluate the facility’s medical staff and environment.
Memory Care
Designed for seniors with Alzheimer's or dementia, focusing on safety and cognitive support.
24-hour supervision and safety features.
Memory-enhancing activities and trained staff.
Considerations: Typically more expensive but crucial for those with advanced cognitive decline. Ensure staff qualifications and facility safety features are adequate.
Hospice Care
Hospice focuses on comfort and dignity for those in their final stages of life.
Pain and symptom management.
Emotional and spiritual support for patients and families.
Considerations: Best for individuals with terminal illnesses. Choose a provider that aligns with your family’s needs for medical, emotional, and spiritual care.
Key Takeaways
Choosing the right senior living option depends on your parent’s health, future needs, financial resources, and personal preferences. Planning ahead and researching options ensures a smoother transition.
Resources and Links (Houston-Specific):
Caregiver Resources
Dementia/Alzheimer’s/Parkinson’s
Legal Resources
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